Sunday, February 3, 2013

23. Why Parents Need to Let Their Children Fail


Teachers sometimes face the problem of “overprotective” parents who do their children’s school work for them. However, this over protectiveness leaves children in a helpless state. They seem destined to have an anxious adulthood and lacking the emotional state to deal with setbacks or failures. In a Queensland University study by Judith Locke she describes “overparenting” as a, “misguided attempt to improve their child’s current and future personal and academic success.”  There are some parents who do silly things for their kids but the most troublesome acts will hurt the children academically.  These parents do not let their children solve their own problems. The parents are too willing to rush to their kids every need. The children are not able to learn to take responsibility nor the consequences of their actions because their protective parents will not let them.

The author, Jessica Lahey, begins with a lengthy description of her past experience with parents doing all their kids work. This introduces the problem in a way to catch the reader’s interest.  Lahey tries to connect with possible readers who are frustrated teachers by including that there are many teachers facing overprotective parents. In the article Lahey uses cause and effect to show what will happen to kids whose parents will not let them fail. Lahey also includes a study from Queensland University by Judith Locke.

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